Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. I fully understand the fact that I need to do those things so I can accomplish my dream. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. He did call frequently, so I don't think its a good sign that your doctor guy isn't calling. No sex before marriage. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. So it is going to be over anyway.



I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. The only thing I can say is good luck to all. The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. And some of them are selfish and fully aware that as a doctor they can pull in hot females, many of whom will put up with being treated poorly. It also means that you have to give her something particular to do.
I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. We learn sooooooo much from each other. What a bozza topic.
Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. I have two babies, 3 months and 3 years old and I believe they probably think my dr husband is an uncle or a distance relative bc their daddy was away for fellowship for over a yr and now away bc of his job. It is an act of faith.